How We Transitioned From
TOXIC to HEALTHY

Never in a million years would we have ever thought we would be considered as influencers in the area of relationship coaching. When we met in December 2015, our connection was built upon pain, trauma and codependency. Neither of us grew up seeing healthy relationships modeled and therefore, we acted out what we witnessed growing up. This led us down a path of excruciating pain, deep depression and unfortunately, many separations.

The good news is that we always found our way back to each other and after much soul searching, intense therapy and coaching, we learned that our issues really weren’t with one another, but with ourselves. We learned that relationships are a mirror and we often despise in others, what exists within us.

After being together for almost a decade, our journey has been filled with many transitions, highs and lows mixed with self-discovery. We both had a traumatic and dysfunctional upbringing that we carried over into our adulthood. Lashon experienced molestation as a teenager that lasted for years and Carla was physically, mentally and emotionally abused by a parental figure as an adolescent. We are now best-selling authors who authentically and candidly share our journeys to help others heal, forgive and overcome life’s setbacks and circumstances.

We are Certified Trauma-Informed Life & Relationship Coaches who have 13 years combined experience of coaching and are passionate about helping couples deepen their connection while cultivating healthy love. Our authentic and transparent approach has gained us an audience/community of over 100K on Tik Tok and 50K+ on Instagram where we share daily inspiration and relationship tips to help couples grow their relationship without losing themselves in the process.

Simply put, we are a REAL couple, who has experienced REAL pain and now provide REAL solutions to others by sharing our truth of how we both had to commit to doing our inner work to become the couple that so many love and admire today.